The best way to get answers to these questions"”and, in general, to just about all math questions"”is to investigate the situation(s) yourself.
For instance, this:
So what I'm getting from this is that if opposite angles of a four sided shape are the same, we can't just assume that opposite sides are the same
If you draw a few rectangles, you'll figure this one out pretty quickly. (Every angle of every rectangle is 90º, so, there you go.)
This:
if opposite sides are the same length (and parallel), we can't assume that opposite angles will be the same
Draw yourself a bunch of parallelograms, and you'll quickly see that this is also true.