Are recommendations REALLY that important???

[wschaeff]

Hi,

I'm extremely frustrated/concerned. I recently submitted applications before the Rd 1 deadline, but I am missing one letter of recommendation because my most recent boss (he left 3 months ago) never submitted a recommendation. I spoke with him throughout the summer and 1 week before the deadline he assured me they'd "drop by midnight". He's been "unavailable" since then - hasn't returned emails, calls, or texts. I've requested an old supervisor to fill in, but I haven't worked with him in 3 years and I know how much stress admissions places on recent supervisors. Unfortunately, I am not an I-banker or Management Consultant whose boss is expected to write a letter of recommendation so there is no one at my company I am comfortable asking. I wouldn't be considered for new opportunities, etc. at work if management knew I was looking to leave.

Having worked my tail off to earn a 750 on the GMAT and write fantastic essays, I'm extremely concerned that not having a letter from my most recent supervisor will keep me from my dream of earning an MBA. Any thoughts or advice? Should I just have a friend write on and say he's my supervisor like what I hear 90% of applicants do? (I'm not serious about the last one. I'm too honest. Just venting :-) )

[mbamission]

Hi wschaeff,

Thanks for writing -- sounds like a tough break. I can think of two options for you:

1) Rely on the older supervisor, and in the optional essay briefly explain that your most recent boss had committed to writing your reference and then disappeared right before the deadline. I'm sure this isn't the first time this has happened.

2) Call the admissions office and simply explain the situation and ask what they prefer you do. While the admissions process can seem scary and a bit of a "black box," there are people on the other end who can empathize with your situation.

Good luck!
Daniel Richards
http://www.mbamission.com

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